The One Excuse You Can’t Use Anymore

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The Reason You Haven’t Signed Your Will Just Expired

Somewhere in your house there’s a phone number for a lawyer. Maybe it’s a business card in a kitchen drawer, or a contact in your phone under a name you’d have to think about for a second before you placed it. Someone gave it to you. You meant to call.

But you didn’t call, and it wasn’t because you don’t care what happens to your family. It’s because you started working out the logistics and stopped there. Signing a will has always meant everybody in the same room at the same time. You, your spouse, two witnesses, and a good chunk of a weekday at a lawyer’s office. So it needs a day when you’re both off work, or when the drive into the city doesn’t swallow the whole thing, or when he isn’t away on shift. It needs one particular Tuesday, and that Tuesday never quite arrives.

So the card stays in the drawer, and every January you tell yourself this is the year.

Here’s the thing. In a good part of the country, that particular problem doesn’t exist anymore.


The same-room rule went away, in some provinces

During the pandemic, several provinces let people sign wills, powers of attorney and personal directives over video. Most of us assumed that ended when the emergency measures ended. In four provinces, it didn’t.

Alberta amended the Wills and Succession Act, the Powers of Attorney Act and the Personal Directives Act, extended the deadline again and again, and then repealed the regulation that set an expiry date at all. Remote execution is simply one of the ways these documents get signed in Alberta now, with no medical reason required and no emergency to justify it.

Ontario made virtual witnessing permanent in 2021 through Bill 245, covering wills under the Succession Law Reform Act and powers of attorney under the Substitute Decisions Act. Saskatchewan replaced its emergency regulations with permanent ones and later moved the provisions into The Wills Act, 1996. British Columbia went the furthest, permitting remote witnessing and fully electronic wills as of December 2021.

Quebec took a different route, which makes sense given it runs on civil law rather than common law. Most Quebecers sign a notarial will with a notary, and since 2023 the notarial act on a technological medium has been permanent rather than a pandemic accommodation. Signing that act remotely, though, is now the exception rather than the norm. Your notary decides whether the circumstances justify it, and can decline.

Everywhere else, assume the old rules still apply. Manitoba, Nova Scotia, New Brunswick, Prince Edward Island, Newfoundland and Labrador, Yukon, the Northwest Territories and Nunavut either brought in temporary measures and let them lapse, or never brought them in at all. If you’re in one of those places, ask a lawyer in your province or territory what’s actually available to you right now before you count on signing anything over a video call.

Booked, cancelled, booked, cancelled

Renata and her husband met with a lawyer in 2019, went through the whole thing, and gave their instructions. The drafts were ready three weeks later. All that was left was a signing appointment, which meant both of them in the same office on the same afternoon. He drove long haul and got home in stretches nobody could predict. She worked Tuesdays through Saturdays. They booked once and cancelled, booked again and cancelled, then stopped booking. Four years on, the file was still open and the drafts were still drafts. They didn’t have out-of-date wills, or badly written ones. They had no wills, because a will that hasn’t been signed isn’t a will.


What signing over video actually looks like

The process is more structured than “sign it over video” makes it sound.

In Alberta, you and your witnesses connect by video in real time, where everyone can see, hear and speak to each other at once. One of those witnesses has to be a lawyer who’s an active member of the profession, and specifically the lawyer who advised you on the document. The second witness is usually someone from that lawyer’s office. Everyone then signs identical copies in wet ink. Not an electronic signature, not a typed name in a box. Actual pen on actual paper. Those signed copies get combined, so your finished will might be three identical copies executed in counterpart that together form one valid document. It looks odd if you’ve only ever seen a will signed the traditional way, but it’s a properly executed will.

Ontario works much the same way, except the required witness can be a lawyer or a paralegal licensed by the Law Society of Ontario. Saskatchewan also requires a lawyer as one of the two witnesses, and the original document travels between the people signing it, with each signature acknowledged over video.

British Columbia is the outlier. For a will, the witnesses can attend electronically and sign in counterpart, and neither of them has to be a lawyer or notary. BC also allows genuinely electronic wills, created, signed and stored digitally. For an enduring power of attorney witnessed remotely, though, the witness does have to be a lawyer or a BC notary public, and the document has to record that the alternative process was used.

One thing worth clearing up, because it stops a lot of people before they start. If you’ve been picturing yourself rounding up two willing witnesses, that was never really your job. A lawyer’s office supplies them, and always has. What you had to supply was everyone’s presence in one place on one afternoon, and that’s the part that’s changed.

What changed is where you sign and how many calendars have to line up. What didn’t change is that a professional is usually still in the room, even when the room is a video call. You’re not signing your will alone at the kitchen table on a Sunday afternoon.


The part nobody legislated

Your lawyer can draft anything you ask for. What your lawyer can’t do is decide who should raise your children, or whether your executor is the right person or just the oldest person, or how to divide things between the daughter who’s driven you to appointments for a decade and the son who lives three provinces away, or what happens to the cabin when one of your kids wants to keep it and the other wants the money.

Those decisions are yours, and they’re the ones that make appointments long, expensive and sometimes unfinished. A lawyer who has to draw your family tree from scratch, ask three times what you own, and then wait while you and your spouse have a conversation you’ve never had, is a lawyer billing you for all of it.

Three appointments instead of one

Bashir booked with a lawyer two weeks after he read that Alberta had made remote signing permanent. He expected one meeting. About twenty minutes in, he was asked who should serve as executor if his brother couldn’t, and he realized he’d never once thought about it. Then came the question about his RRSP, which still named his first wife as beneficiary, and whether that was deliberate. The meeting ended with a list of things for Bashir to go home and figure out. It took two more appointments to get to a signature. The video call had saved him the trouble of finding witnesses. It hadn’t saved him a dollar or his time.

None of what held Bashir up had anything to do with scheduling, and no change in the law was going to sort it out for him.

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What you’d want answers to first

Whether you use a tool or a legal pad, these are the questions that make the difference between one appointment and three. Who your executor is, and whether you’ve actually asked them, because naming someone isn’t the same as them agreeing to do it. What you own and roughly what it’s worth, including anything held outside your province. Who gets what, and what happens if a beneficiary dies before you do. Your beneficiary designations on RRSPs, RRIFs, TFSAs and life insurance, which typically pass outside the will entirely and usually win when they contradict it. And anything that makes your situation less than standard: a blended family, a beneficiary who receives provincial disability benefits, a business, property in another country, or a child you’re deliberately leaving out and why.

Those are the things that need to be raised and decided before the appointment rather than discovered at it.


It isn’t only your will

When people talk about estate planning, the will gets all the attention, but it’s rarely the document your family needs first. A power of attorney and a personal directive are what matter while you’re still here and can’t speak for yourself, and in Alberta all three can be signed remotely under the same rules. Ontario’s changes covered powers of attorney as well. BC allows remote witnessing for enduring powers of attorney and representation agreements, with that lawyer or notary requirement attached.

The names differ depending on where you live, and in most of the country these are two separate documents rather than one. On the money side, it’s a continuing power of attorney in Ontario and an enduring power of attorney nearly everywhere else. On the health and personal care side, the same document is a power of attorney for personal care in Ontario, a personal directive in Alberta, Nova Scotia and the Northwest Territories, a health care directive in Manitoba, Saskatchewan, New Brunswick and Prince Edward Island, an advance health care directive in Newfoundland and Labrador, and a representation agreement in British Columbia.

Quebec does it differently again. One document, the protection mandate, covers both your person and your property, and it has to be approved by a court before the person you named can start acting on it.

The scheduling problem was doing us a favour, in a way. It made putting this off seem reasonable. Nobody argues with a calendar, and as long as the appointment couldn’t be booked, the harder questions underneath it didn’t have to be answered.

Those questions don’t come with a deadline, and nobody can answer them for you. They’re also not as big as they feel.  An evening at the kitchen table with the person you’d be deciding alongside, a few things written down, and you’re ready to make the call.

The card’s still in the drawer. The excuse isn’t.


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Charitable Giving for a Lasting Legacy

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How Charitable Giving Strengthens Your Estate Plan

Many people think of charitable giving as something they do during their lifetime. They support causes that matter to them, respond to community needs, and contribute to organizations that align with their values. What many do not realize is that charitable giving can also play a meaningful role in estate planning. For individuals and families who want to leave a lasting impact, including a charitable gift in a will is one of the most powerful ways to create a legacy.

In Canada, more people are starting to explore charitable bequests as part of their estate plans. For some, it is a way to reflect gratitude for the organizations that shaped their lives. For others, it is a thoughtful strategy to reduce the tax burden on the estate. The motivation may vary, but the outcome is similar. A well planned charitable gift can carry personal meaning while also offering practical benefits for the estate and its beneficiaries.

This week, we discuss why charitable giving is an important option to consider, the potential tax efficiencies, the various ways to give, and how executors handle these gifts. It offers clarity without providing technical tax advice, and readers should always consult legal or tax professionals for specific guidance.


Why Charitable Giving Belongs in Estate Planning

Estate planning is about much more than deciding who receives your assets. It is about defining your values and ensuring they continue to matter long after you are gone. A charitable gift can serve several important purposes.

1. It expresses personal values

A charitable bequest allows someone to support causes that reflect their beliefs, priorities, and life experiences. Whether it is healthcare, education, animal welfare, community development, or a local organization that made a difference in their life, charitable gifts create a lasting legacy.

2. It relieves pressure on surviving family members

Families often feel conflicted when they believe their loved one would have wanted to support a cause, yet nothing was formally documented. A clear charitable bequest removes that uncertainty and avoids disagreements among beneficiaries.

3. It can reduce the estate’s overall tax burden

Charitable gifts made through the estate can create tax credits that help reduce the amount of tax owed on the final tax return. These credits may offset taxes arising from income, capital gains, or registered account withdrawals that occur at death. The result is that more of the estate can be directed to the causes and people the individual cares about. The details depend on personal circumstances, so a qualified tax professional should always confirm the best approach.

If you are seeking assistance in bringing clarity and structure to your estate planning, my NEXsteps services are designed to support you through that process.


A Simple Gift That Made a Big Difference

Sam passed away with a sizeable RRIF that became fully taxable at death. His will included a $10,000 bequest to a local hospice. The estate received a donation receipt for the same amount, which helped offset a portion of the tax triggered by the RRIF. The charity received meaningful support, and the estate preserved more funds for the beneficiaries.


How Charitable Gifts Reduce Taxes

Charitable giving can create tax advantages during life, but it can also play a role in reducing taxes at death. Here is a high level look at how this typically works.

When a person dies, their estate is required to file a final tax return that reports all income up to the date of death. This return often includes significant taxable income, especially if the individual held RRSPs or RRIFs, real estate with capital gains, investments, or other assets that trigger tax at death.

Charitable donations made through the will or by the estate can generate donation tax credits that may reduce taxes on either the final return or on the estate’s own filings. In Canada, donation claim limits increase at death. While living donors can generally claim charitable gifts up to 75 percent of their net income for the year, an estate can claim eligible charitable donations up to 100 percent of net income on the final return and the previous year’s return. This can create meaningful tax efficiencies, depending on the individual’s situation and provincial tax rates.

These credits can reduce the overall tax payable, sometimes to a significant extent. For families, the benefit is twofold. A cause that mattered to their loved one receives support, and the estate may preserve more value for its beneficiaries.


Honouring a Loved One

Shirley left five percent of her estate to a cancer foundation that supported her late spouse. The family appreciated that the gift was clearly documented, which prevented disagreements during a difficult time. The charity provided administrative support and the executor was able to apply donation credits to reduce the estate’s final tax bill.


Common Ways to Include Charitable Giving in an Estate Plan

There are several ways to incorporate charitable gifts into a will or estate plan. Some are simple, while others require more coordination. The best approach depends on the individual’s goals and assets.

1. Specific cash gifts

A fixed dollar amount designated to a charity. It is simple to administer and ensures clarity.

2. Residual gifts

A charity can receive a percentage of whatever remains in the estate after debts, taxes, and specific gifts are handled.

3. Gifts of securities

Donating appreciated investments can be tax efficient, since capital gains may be reduced while still supporting a charitable cause.

4. Life insurance beneficiary designations

A charity can be named as a beneficiary of a policy, creating a larger future gift without reducing current cash flow.

5. Donor advised funds

These funds allow structured giving during life, with instructions that continue automatically through the estate.

6. Registered account beneficiary designations

A charity can be named as the beneficiary of an RRSP or RRIF. Since these accounts are taxable at death, the donation receipt can help offset that tax.


What Executors Should Know About Charitable Gifts

Executors play a critical role in ensuring that charitable bequests are handled correctly. Their responsibilities may include:

  • Contacting the charity and confirming legal names and charitable registration numbers
  • Providing documentation to support the administration
  • Coordinating valuations for non cash gifts
  • Working with accountants to apply available tax credits
  • Ensuring timing aligns with the rules of the estate
  • Communicating clearly with both beneficiaries and the charity

Most charities have dedicated planned giving staff who understand estate administration. They help executors meet requirements and honour the donor’s intentions.


When No Instructions Were Left

A family believed their mother had wanted to leave money to her church, but nothing appeared in her will. The beneficiaries disagreed on how to handle it. Because there were no written instructions, the executor could not legally make a donation from the estate. This created unnecessary tension. Clear planning would have prevented conflict and ensured the mother’s wishes were honoured.


Planning With Purpose

Charitable giving in estate planning is about intention, clarity, and alignment. It helps individuals support the causes they care about while potentially providing tax efficiencies for their estate. It can also give families peace of mind, knowing that their loved one’s values continue to have an impact.

If you are considering incorporating charitable giving into your estate plan or want help ensuring your wishes are documented clearly and respectfully,  I can assist you in building a thoughtful and comprehensive plan.


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Estate Planning Nightmares and How to Avoid Them

Estate Planning Nightmares and How to Avoid Them

The Real Frights Behind Estate Planning Nightmares

Every October, we decorate our homes with cobwebs, pumpkins, and plastic skeletons. We expect a little fright during Halloween, even if the only ones trying to spook us are kids dressed as ghosts and superheroes. The real chills start when there’s no estate plan in place.

What’s scarier than Halloween? For me, it’s discovering that someone has passed away without a will, an executor plan, or even the faintest idea of where their paperwork is. Ghosts don’t scare me. But probate delays, family feuds, and missing documents? Those can keep anyone up at night.

So, in the spirit of the season, let’s peek into a few estate planning nightmares, true-to-life tales that remind us why proper planning matters far more than carving the perfect jack-o’-lantern.


Nightmare #1: The Vanishing Will

Margaret was organized, or so everyone thought. She paid her bills on time, kept neat files, and had even mentioned updating her will. But when she passed away, her family discovered that the “new will” was nowhere to be found. The lawyer’s office had an outdated version, one that left out a key asset and named an executor who had died years earlier.

Without a valid, up-to-date will, the estate was forced into a lengthy and expensive probate process. Family members argued over what Margaret “would have wanted,” while legal fees drained funds that could have gone to her loved ones.

The moral? A missing or outdated will can turn a peaceful passing into a bureaucratic horror story. A simple review every couple of years and making sure copies are stored safely and shared appropriately, would have prevented months of frustration and thousands in costs.


Nightmare #2: The Family Feud That Wouldn’t Die

When Paul passed away, his three adult children assumed everything would be divided equally. Unfortunately, his estate documents told a different story. One child had been added as a joint owner on the house, another was named on investment accounts, and the third was completely left out of those arrangements.

Paul believed he was “making things easier.” In reality, he had created a tangled mess of ownership and taxation issues. The siblings’ relationships fractured under the weight of suspicion and resentment. Lawyers were hired, accusations flew, and a once-close family barely speaks to this day.

Joint ownership might seem like a convenient shortcut, but it often creates confusion and inequity. Proper legal and financial advice could have prevented this nightmare and protected both the estate and the family bonds.

The Quiet Power of Thoughtful Planning

“Good planning is like leaving a light on for those who follow — a quiet act of love that keeps guiding them long after you’re gone.”

 


Nightmare #3: The Executor Who Couldn’t Escape

When Helen agreed to act as executor for her cousin’s estate, she thought it would be a simple, short-term responsibility. Instead, she found herself trapped in an endless loop of forms, deadlines, and phone calls.

There were unpaid taxes, missing receipts, and beneficiaries who questioned her every move. She didn’t realize that executors can be personally liable for mistakes. What started as a gesture of love turned into months of stress, sleepless nights, and second-guessing.

With proper preparation and professional guidance Helen could have navigated her duties confidently. Instead, she was left feeling like the lead character in her own horror movie: “Attack of the Unending Paperwork.”


Why These Nightmares Happen

The truth behind every estate planning nightmare is rarely malice or neglect. It’s often hesitation, discomfort, or the belief that “there’s still time.” Talking about death and money isn’t easy, and most people would rather face a room full of ghosts than a stack of estate forms.

But planning isn’t about doom and gloom. It’s about protecting what you’ve built and sparing your loved ones unnecessary pain. Think of it as your family’s emergency flashlight. When the unexpected happens, your plan helps everyone find their way.

Estate Planning Doesn’t Have to Be Scary

A clear, current estate plan is the difference between calm and chaos. It protects your wishes, supports your executor, and keeps family relationships intact. Don’t let your story turn into a cautionary tale.

 


Your First Step Toward Peace of Mind

If your will or estate plan hasn’t been reviewed in years, now’s the perfect time. My NEXsteps Essentials Package makes it simple to start, guiding you through what you need, what to update, and what to document so your loved ones aren’t left guessing. It’s one small step that prevents some very big scares later.


Turning Fright Into Foresight

Halloween reminds us that fear can be fun, at least when it’s pretend. But the truth is, the scariest stories aren’t found in haunted houses. They happen in real life when families are left to untangle unfinished estates. When it comes to your estate, uncertainty isn’t entertaining; it’s exhausting for those you leave behind. Every clear instruction, every organized document, and every thoughtful choice you make is a kindness that echoes long after you’re gone.

So this year, while the ghosts and goblins make their rounds, take a moment to think about what might still be unfinished in your own planning. Replace fright with foresight. Visit nexsteps.ca to learn how small, intentional steps today can prevent your own estate planning nightmare tomorrow.

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